July 12, 1977 – December 5, 2015
Jeffrey James Parkin, 38, son, brother, father, uncle, loved one and friend, chose to leave this earthly life Dec. 5, 2015. He is finally free from the pain and turmoil that plagued him here. He is now able to rest and be at peace. Heaven gained one more beautiful angel.
Jeff was born July 12, 1977, to CarolAnn and Jeffrey Neil Parkin in Murray, Utah. He grew up and lived most of his life in Pocatello, Idaho. He attended Highland High School and was baptized into the LDS church. He later spent time in the Salt Lake City area and lived his final years in St. George, Utah.
When he was 19, he met Shiloy Miller. They were married June 22, 1996. From their marriage came three beautiful children: Geffrey Neil Parkin, Logan Jerry Parkin and Tayler Marie Parkin. Shiloy and Jeff later divorced. He later met Brandie Kay, and they were married May 26, 2011. Together, they found much happiness.
He then was allowed to be a dad to Kodie Pallas and Brayden Alves. Brandie and Jeff later separated. Shortly after moving to St. George, he met and fell in love with Colleen Lacey. Once they found each other. they were inseparable.
They enjoyed their time together, often laughing and joking with the innocence of children. They didn’t need anything in life but each other. She will always continue to be a part of our family. She was thankful he was the one to show her what true love was. She wants you to know she will wait forever, and you will be soul mates. His final gift to her was to leave her in the arms of his family to walk through this pain together as he couldn’t fight anymore.
Jeff did everything in his life 100 percent. When he loved, he loved with all his heart, and when he hurt, he hurt with all his heart. As a young boy, he loved track and field and was raised on a farm. The life lessons taught to him through track and on the farm were his true foundations and the values he strived for in life.
After a while, living simply, being grateful and loving unconditionally was what was most important to him. That and the two-liter of Pepsi while watching good movies with his lady or family.
Jeff loved movies and good books. Living simply meant watching his nephews football games every Thursday and Friday where he was easily recognized as the loudest yeller in the crowd and made even the games they didn’t win fun. Saturdays at his sisters for family dinner and a movie were priceless. We all crammed in together, and he talked about it often always waiting for the next time.
Also, anyone who knew him knew of his love of snakes. He taught his sister and Colleen a lot about snakes the last few months, and especially weeks, so they could carry on his legacy and love. We are planning to do just that and make a world’s first in his honor. He laid out the blue prints, picked the snakes and told us everything so we would know exactly what to do and how to breed them. We swear in his name and memory we will.
He learned much from his dad, such as hard work ethic, your word is your bond and you never give up. From his mother he gained his pure heart, loving soul, love for people and his true and utter kindness. Jeff loved hunting with his dad and Uncle Randy and fishing with his grandfather.
Many memories were made on the beach with his Uncle Rusty and cousins. There wasn’t very often if he was at his grandmas you wouldn’t find him in the kitchen. He also loved going cliff diving with his niece and nephew and being outdoors hiking. He told us those were some of the few times he wasn’t being haunted and felt at peace. We are so thankful for those memories.
Jeff held a lot of guilt for something that happened when he was younger and some things he had done later in life. This is part of the nightmares and terrors that never left. Jeff needs to know that all of that was forgiven long ago. The past was the past. Only he and the demons fueled by the cunning power of addiction held him with that terror and those regrets. He felt a huge debt was still owed and would never be paid up until he paid for it with his own life.
The demons, devil and addiction continued to convince him that was true, and they finally won the fight. On Dec. 5, in the most beautiful part of the city, he paid his debt, ending his own life in this world.
I know Ben was there to greet you in heaven with open arms Jeff. May you be free of the hauntings and your hurt and may you now finally, finally be able to rest in peace.
Jeff is survived by his mother, CarolAnn Parkin, Salt Lake City, Utah; his sister, Shianne (Brandon) Languein, St. George, Utah; grandmother Carole Facer, Salt Lake City, Utah; Colleen Lacey, St. George, Utah; and children Geffrey Parkin, Kennewick, Washington, Logan Jerry Parkin, Pocatello, Idaho, and Tayler Marie Parkin, Cambridge, Idaho. Also by Keyara Parkin (Jayden Smith) niece, and Tyrell Languein, St. George, Utah.
He is proceeded in death by his father, Jeffrey Neil Parkin, grandpa James Alma Facer, grandpa Henry Neil Parkin and Uncle Randy Facer.
Funeral services
- A memorial will be held to celebrate his life, Saturday Dec. 19, 1-3 p.m., 6100 S. 2480 West in Taylorsville, Utah.
In lieu of flowers, please donate if possible to the Jeff Parkin Funeral Fund on gofundme.com. Family and friends are invited to sign Jeff’s guest book online.
Arrangements have been made by Spilsbury Mortuary.
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